Divorcing Parents: The Little Ones are Listening

Parents going through a divorce have one thing in common: They don’t want their arguments and harsh words overheard by their children. Every parent will say, “We’re doing our best to shield our children from the arguments.” Unfortunately, those best intentions are often forgotten the minute an uncomfortable topic is brought up. It doesn’t make us bad parents, but it does have an effect on the little ones. Life is not easy. It can be a series of “Why me?” events that seem to multiply as the years go by. The good news is there are always ribbons of amazing “I am so blessed” moments that are woven through those harder times. We can’t shield our children from the fact that the divorce will affect them, but we’re still obligated to help them find a new balance. That means making an even stronger commitment with the one person who you’re sure has ruined your life. Even if you can’t find that middle road on things like the house, spousal support, and who gets the Am
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By the Numbers in Texas: Abuse and Parenting Stresses

The latest numbers regarding abuse and neglected children in Texas were just released. Of course, any number is disappointing, but this year’s increase is especially so and they show it goes far deeper than parenting stresses. More children were abused and neglected in Tarrant County in 2014 than in any other Texas county. The confirmed number is an astonishing 6,097 children. Worse, eleven children in Tarrant County alone died due to abuse or neglect in 2014. The Disturbing Truth The report continues; in four out of five cases, it was the parent who was the abuser. If you’re wondering how that can be, you’re not alone. In our practice, we see parents on a daily basis who simply want to protect their children. There are times when the cases include two loving parents, but who struggle to find a good parenting solution. Those are the cases that remind us that sometimes, two people who are no longer in love can still share a deep love for children. These are the win-win cases in o
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Here’s What the Daughter of Two Moms Says About Fatherhood

Over the weekend, I came across an essay titled, “Dear Gay Community: Your Kids Are Hurting.” Not really sure what the subject was, I clicked on it and discovered an interesting take on parenthood. A young woman, Heather Barwick, who was raised by two mothers, took a bold step when she spoke openly about missing out on the advantages of having a father, and not only that, but she opposes marriage equality. Barwick begins with, “Gay community, I am your daughter. My mom raised me with her same-sex partner back in the ’80s and ’90s.” She then goes on to explain she too is coming out of the closet in a way by stating: “I don’t support gay marriage.” It’s not what you’re probably thinking, however. She ensures her message isn’t misinterpreted, “It’s not because you’re gay. I love you, so much. It’s because of the nature of the same-sex relationship itself.” What makes this even more interesting, especially to fathers’ rights advocates such as myself, is
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Do Mothers Have More Parental Rights Than Fathers in Texas?

For most parents, maintaining a relationship with their child is one of the most important goals when they decide to divorce or end a romantic relationship. If you separate from your child’s other parent, a custody arrangement must be created to divide up parenting time. Many people believe mothers have more parental rights than fathers do, which can cause dads to give up on fighting for custody. Today, however, the courts and the laws do not inherently give preference to mothers. Instead, a number of different factors are considered to decide what is right for the child and the family. An experienced divorce and family law professional can represent you when you are seeking custody of your children so you will have the best chance of getting a custody arrangement that works for you. When a couple separates, they should strongly consider trying to come to an agreement on parenting time and custody without involving the courts. A family lawyer can help negotiate a custody arrangement
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New Testimonial from Satisfied Client

April 8, 2015 Hi Jon, I wanted to thank you for handling my case with such detail and professionalism. I was thoroughly impressed with your knowledge in family and how well versed you are with all the details pertaining to family law. With no hesitation you not only advised opposing counsel of the law but also the judge.  Additionally, the way you defended my case during the court session was impactful, you were well prepared, and very familiar with all aspects of my case. I want to thank you for being honest up front and never misleading in anyway. Finally, I also need to mention that all the legal documents filed and entered in with the court are very detailed and to the point without question. In closing, I wanted to say that your legal services and skills are worth the money I paid; I have never been able to say that. I can’t say that any attorney I hired in the past has earned their money, but you have. With much confidence, I will gladly recommend you to family or friends who
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Legal Challenges for Fathers in Texas

It’s true that fathers are now being viewed more fairly when it comes to custody and visitation rights. That doesn’t mean, however, that the battle’s won. Many fathers are still unsure of how far their rights extend – and that in itself is problematic. No father should have to worry about crossing some legal line in an effort to be involved with his children.
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Wiz Khalifa: One Celebrity Who’s Fighting for His Paternal Rights

Recently, one well-known rapper found himself being blocked from attending his son’s birthday party. Rapper Wiz Khalifa planned on and was supposed to celebrate his son Sebastian Taylor Thomaz’s second birthday on Saturday, February 21. He was unable to do so, though, and says it’s his ex wife who kept him away from the party. What he did next might not be the best thing from the perspective of his attorney, but it does highlight just how many fathers share the same story and how paternal rights can sometimes be pushed to the side. standing up for all fathers who need, deserve, or can t find help. — Cameron (@wizkhalifa) February 22, 2015 Upset, he took to Twitter to show just how unfairly he believes he was treated. Reading the tweets, it’s difficult to not feel the frustration and pain. Most fathers would feel the same way, were they kept away from their children, especially at such an important event. He wrote, “I’ve never voiced my true unhappiness out of fear of the
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